Welcome to my blog! I'm a professional dog trainer. I train dogs in the homes of my clients, at their convenience. So...I spend a lot of time driving, thinking, and praying. These are my musings, put down on electronic paper. Pull up a comfy chair, get something refreshing to drink, a snack if you like, and enjoy the journey...

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Chaco

A few months ago, I did an evaluation of Chaco...a very aggressive Aussie/Hound mix. He's as cute as he knows how to be! He's as spotted as a Dalmatian, and has the ticking of an Australian Cattle Dog, but his head looks like a Blue Tick Coonhound through and through, having shorter Beagle-type ears. He's all white, and spotted, with black ticking throughout his body, and both of his ears are brown and black, marbled together. His eyes are not hard, but they're not soft either. He's a seriously scared, anxious, stressed three year old dog!!


His owners are terrific! They foster dogs for a local rescue organization, so they have several "roomers" at any given time. They generally keep a dog for 2-3 months to help act as a segway between the dog's previous situation and his new home. Foster parents often do some measure of rehabilitation, both physical and mental for these dogs. Many rescue dogs are damaged goods in some form or fashion. One of their current Basset Hounds, Louie, is probably 10 years or older and was seriously starved...almost to death, when he came to live at their house. He weighed only 30 pounds as an adult, when the standard weight for an adult Basset Hound is 60 pounds or more. What a loving, sweet guy he is despite horrible, abusive previous owners.


Chaco was found tied to a tree by a rope when he was rescued. That's an absolute recipe for creating an aggressive dog. Dog + Tie Out = Aggressive Dog. Chaco came to them as a foster, but has just never left. His owners have huge hearts and are trying to rehabilitate him. Believe it or not, but he's a wonderful family dog, as are many aggressive dogs. His owners have two young children who can lie on the dog and hug on him, etc., and he eats up the attention and loves them right back. However, if you're a stranger, and you're at the front door or fence, you're asking for a bad bite! At this point in time, he has four bad bites to his name, with puncture wounds and bruising. That demonstrates a very very confident biter, so he's not afraid to use his pearly whites when he's stressed. And unlike a dog whose bark is worse than his bite, this dog doesn't bark...he just bites! He charges at his target and sinks in his teeth with very little warning. No good. A 45 pound biting dog is no fun to live with, and certainly NO fun to train!


When Chaco saw me, he was on leash, and well away from the door. He did a little barking, some vocalizing, and stared at me until his owner was able to break his focus--several moments. We chatted at the door for a bit, and Chaco relaxed a tad, feeling safe enough to look away from me, and relax his body a bit. I tossed him some treats to measure his stress levels, and at first he wasn't impressed with my offerings. He picked one up, mouthed it, and spit it back out. But, in a short time, he changed his opinion, and decided I wasn't worth passing up a yummy snack. He took all of the treats I offered, and became curious about who I was. He ventured toward me to sniff a bit, even at a safe distance, which was all very nice, relaxed behavior, and actually, a good first meeting for a seriously aggressive dog.


As the evaluation went on, I learned that when he had been rescued, his collar was embedded in his neck, so his previous owners didn't care or didn't notice that he had outgrown his collar. That's horrible, tough abuse for a dog who certainly doesn't understand why he hurts or why the people in his world are mean to him for no apparent reason.


He's currently in a really wonderful home, which is pretty stable, except for the dogs coming and going, which probably does stress him out a bit. His owners want to see his behavior change or he may have to be euthanized, as he is a serious liability for them considering the current level of his aggression.


While I was completing my questionnaire, a neighbor came out into their driveway across the street, maybe 25 yards away. Chaco woke up from his nap, sat up, and began to vocalize as full hackles came up from his neck all the way to his tail as a demonstration of his anxiety about the "interloper" who was too close for comfort! And that was at 25 yards away, while he was safely inside a house!! That's some serious fear of people!


His owners have opted to try training him in an effort to save him, so I will have other posts about his progress. Looking at Louie, lying on the other side of the table from Chaco, it's really amazing how two dogs who had seriously abusive pasts are now two completely different dogs in how they are coping with life. Louie has found it within himself to trust humans again, and he's loving and kind, offering me his belly to rub, which clearly made Chaco nervous. Chaco's way of coping with humans is to bite them...although he has bonded very, very nicely to his current owners. Trying to help aggressive, damaged dogs trust again is a hard, hard way to go, and I'm honestly not very hopeful that we'll see a lot of positive change with this dog. He's three years old, has a strong history of bad bites, and is highly reactive, even from quite a distance. These are the cases that humble me and send me to my knees to ask God how to reach these dogs to pull out the sweet dogs buried by years of abuse. This story will definitely be continued...

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Why Leadership Matters: Step One

Every day, I meet with wonderful dogs and their owners. Truthfully, I'm not generally called to be involved in their lives until the dog's behavior has reached critical mass, and the owner is overwhelmed with the "naughty doggie" syndrome of day in and day out with a dog who is a problem. The problem is often not really the dog, but the leadership that the owner has provided. To a dog, leadership is everything. Everything. Nothing else in a dog's world is going to be more important, except maybe food and water. I see so many owners who mean well, and buy toy after toy, fancy leashes and matching collars, expensive plush dog beds, filtered water, etc., all as a way of spoiling their dogs into loving and respecting them. Some folks treat their dogs like glorified dolls, dressing them up and fussing over them like they are the center of the universe...and therein lies the problem. Dogs are not and should not be the center of anyone's universe. I love my little widget, Rugby, like crazy, but he's a dog, and I want him to know that. To some people, I suppose, that sounds unloving, but believe me, it's a very, very loving attitude. Rugby was created to be a dog. Everything about him is a dog. He thinks like a dog. He reasons like a dog. He acts like a dog. He looks and smells like a dog...especially after he's been out in the rain! If I don't treat him like a dog, I deny him the right to be who he is, and I think that's disrespectful and unloving to him. I also strip him of a key element that creates security for him, and that's my leadership. Any time I elevate my dog to a status that he's not entitled to, I'm causing him to feel less secure in his world. I confuse him, and put him in a position where he has to lead whether or not he really wants to, simply because in a dog's mind, someone has to wear those shoes or the pack might not survive. All dogs are hard-wired for survival in a pack, no matter if that dog is a Chihuahua or a Great Dane. Dogs are pack animals, and they think and reason, according to membership as a pack animal. Don't all of us just want to be loved for who we are? Isn't it frustrating to be around folks who just don't understand how we tick and what we're made of? Don't we avoid people who try to make us into who they want us to be rather than accept us as we are and who we are? The best times I have are being around people who know and understand my history and who I am and who just let me be. It's exhausting to be with folks who are constantly trying to change us, and you know, I think we secretly resent them for that. It's a really great expression of love to just accept anyone for who they are, as they are, and not who we want them to be. We all want freedom to grow and change and develop, and dogs are no different in that. The first step in being a great leader to our dogs is just by letting them be dogs and accepting and respecting them as such. That's a very high expression of love and care in my book, and our dogs will love and respect us for that.